Positive words dan reminder hospital bags...

Bismillah wal hamdulillah...  

Positive words...

Saat2 menanti mcm ni mmg mencemaskan especially utk VBAC moms like me... kkdg rasa konfiden n kkdg rasa cam fade up n takut utk lalui pengalaman melahirkan kali ke-2 sbb sy melalui such a traumatic birth as a 1st time ummi... pnh rasa serik masa kuar dari OT n dari spital dulu... n once confirmed by doctor yg sy preggy lg mmg secara lahiriahnya nmpak sy tersgt happy tp jauh disudut hati sy masih rasa trauma itu... alhamdulillah jmpa beberapa org sahabat yg sgt2 supportive n positive about labor/birth... n depa ni xlokek ilmu n share everything yg depa tau pasai birth... kkdg timbul rasa kesal dihati kerna xpernah amik tahu mengenai birth process... yela, mebi ada sesetgh org ckp, org dulu2 lg la xtau apa2... dulu2 tuh la natural birth yg sepatutnya... n ada gak yg ckp ala dia xbuat preparation apa2 leh je beranak normal n mudah... itu rezeki n bahagian dia n dia sepatutnya tahu xsemua org dpt bahagian mcm tuh... sepatutnya dia merasa syukur n mendoakan utk org laen... at least give some positive words... :)

Masuk fb je sure terjah page GBG Malaysia (Gentle Birth Group) byk btul input kt page tuh... i loikeee... sy dpt words yg best dari sis maria zain... berulang2 sy baca n rasa sgt xsaba nk beranak...huk3...

Labour *pain* is very durable if it's in a natural setting. No drugs, no interventions, it's something we can all handle. Allah doesn't burden us more than what we can be burdened with in our capacity. But pain is compounded by problems like being told what to do, how to behave, being scared by others. We're very vulnerable during birth and when someone says, hey, you cannot tahan, you are scared, you should have a c-section, our subconscious processes this as TRUE, and because our mind is set in that direction, our bodies follow. If during labour - even a challenging one - our support people say, you're doing awesome, you're so strong, just imagine meeting your baby soon, you're amazing masha Allah, then your physical self will follow the strength of your mind. A lot of women fail because their support people fail them, and many of these support people are fearful or ignorant of birth, so they impart these negativities on birthing mothers.

I've heard of long labours, 3-4 days, one that went on for 80 hours plus 10 hours of active labour, 3 hours of pushing. All natural, but mum was in control and no one was there to interfere with her birth. It was a good birth. We're very strong, just that culture dictates that birth is something painful and scary that we have to endure, like a curse or something.

If we look at it positively, birth becomes a special honour, and we will honour it in a special light. 

ALLAH berkuasa ke atas sesuatu...sama ada kelahiran secara normal atau sebaliknya...

 

Hospital Bags

Preggy kali ke2 nehs adalah sgt malas utk prepare hospital bags... bape kali da tertangguh... masa anak 1st bkn men awal lg prepare seawal usia kandungan 28weeks lg ha da siap! huhu... kali nehs sy start gabra ayam bila kes bleeding masa 33weeks... trus ha terkocoh2 p shopping dgn en.abg sgala menda2 asas sambut newborn... sib bek xbyk kans sbb recycle brg2 kakak aisya... baju2 mmg sy ada bli yg baru awal2 arituh... bli yg murah2 jerk... since da byk baju kakak aisya... just tmbh sket2 habuan merasa sambut org baru... add on la dgn diapers saiz S sy bli kali nehs sbb tau adik baby a bit besaq dari aisya... haha...trus ha bli diapers saiz S instead bli saiz NB... takut xpadan... hehe :) sama je kot cuma beza dalam beberapa cm... agaknye la... lgpun saiz S leh pakai lama sket... pas kes bleeding tuh leh jgk bertangguh2 nk packing sgala... baju2 baby pun mak tlg basuh... boleh?? ahha... :D pastu mak je la yg asik remind pack beg hospital beberapa kali baru la diri ini terhegeh2 cari beg, masukkan isi2 kt dlm... 

Baby's

Baju newborn - 3pasang

Mittens + booties - 3pasang

Topi - 3pcs

Receiving blanket - 2pcs

Barut - 3pcs

Towel mandi - 1pcs

Towel kecil - 1pcs

Baby wipes - 1pack

Minyak telon - 1botol

Napkins - 3pcs

Diapers - 1pack

Toiletries - travel pack kecik 

Ummi's

Previous medical records (buku merah 1st pregnancy- kes czer)

Current medical record (current buku merah - reminder)

Baju butang depan - 2-3pcs

Kain batik - 2pcs

Stokin - 1pcs

Tudung - 1-2pcs

Sweater - 1pcs

Towel - 1pcs

Toiletteries (shower gel+berus gigi+ubat gigi+deoderant+pencuci muka+ikat rambut)

Maternity pad

Nursing bra

Selipar

Breastpump+botol (manual)

Minyak panas/minyak geliga

Air masak/air panas/air akar fatimah/air zam-zam/kurma/kismis

Makanan/minuman extra (biskut+air kotak+milo+hot choc)

Buku bacaan doa, yassin, al-mathurat, terjemahan al-quran

*handphone+charger (hari nk p spital kena remind)*

Sekian, utk ingatan sndri... huhu... 

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